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This is progress
This morning will be the first organized public event I attend since everything shut down in March of 2020. I’m pumped. My sister cheers...

Dillan Taylor
Mar 27, 20211 min read
Nothing’s wrong
Yesterday, I was being coached by my partner in my coaching program. He and I were diving into the stress and anxiety I feel over money...

Dillan Taylor
Mar 26, 20211 min read
The Four Tendencies
I’m currently reading Gretchen Rubin’s book, The Four Tendencies: The Indispensable Personality Profiles That Reveal How to Make Your...

Dillan Taylor
Mar 23, 20211 min read
The one thing every happy person does
I’ve been trying to get my shit together for the past four years. After reading tons of self-improvement books, logging 130+ coaching...

Dillan Taylor
Mar 19, 20211 min read
Why diets don’t work
Because they typically require that you overload yourself with a bunch of new rules and habits. Now, if you’ve read any of my stuff in...

Dillan Taylor
Mar 12, 20212 min read


From strangers to family
Last night was my first day back to the jiujitsu gym in four months. I took time off because I had a bunch of family events for the...

Dillan Taylor
Mar 9, 20212 min read


The PERMAH Wheel
One exercise I do with my coaching clients is work through the PERMAH Wheel. Simply write down each letter and declare, on a scale from...

Dillan Taylor
Mar 5, 20212 min read


Why I torture myself
A few weeks ago, I was trying to explain the value of inflicting discomfort or “pain” upon myself to a friend. She was puzzled. This was...

Dillan Taylor
Mar 3, 20213 min read


Tea time with a demon
When the Buddha spent a month under the Bodhi Tree pursuing enlightenment, he was challenged by the evil demon King Mara—bringer of death...

Dillan Taylor
Feb 26, 20212 min read
Embarrassing moment at the gym
Yesterday at the gym, this guy was benching without a spotter. I was on the elliptical when I heard a loud boom as his weights came...

Dillan Taylor
Feb 24, 20211 min read
What pain do you want to feel?
After starting a freelancing business last year, a number of unique stressors came into my life. • How will I find my next project? •...

Dillan Taylor
Feb 23, 20211 min read


Fuck your identity
I’ve talked in the past about cultivating an identity for yourself. Examples I’m a person who… • takes care of their health • does...

Dillan Taylor
Feb 22, 20211 min read
Meditation, basically
Most of us have this internal feeling that something is wrong with us. Things can be going great in our lives. We have access to food and...

Dillan Taylor
Feb 19, 20211 min read


Use people’s names
Yesterday, I went on an errand run in the morning. I got my teeth cleaned at the dentist and my car tuned up at the shop. Dale Carnegie’s...

Dillan Taylor
Feb 17, 20212 min read
A friendly, shitty reminder
Something to remember when you feel like you’re falling into a black hole of anxiety and stress: There were folks—individuals, families,...

Dillan Taylor
Feb 15, 20211 min read


Why self-help (usually) doesn’t work
After hitting rock bottom at 23, I converted to a religion practiced by millions of ambitious individuals around the globe: Self...

Dillan Taylor
Feb 13, 20213 min read
50% more
What would it look like if you were 50% more compassionate today? 50% more: • patient • kind • sympathetic • helpful What would that look...

Dillan Taylor
Feb 11, 20211 min read
You can’t be everything to everyone
It doesn’t matter how many people laugh at your joke; there will always be people who find your words offensive. It doesn’t matter how...

Dillan Taylor
Feb 6, 20211 min read


Working through the fog
I found out this weekend that I have Covid. (Ever heard of it?) To start, my symptoms are mild(ish) and I’m fine. By no means am I...

Dillan Taylor
Feb 1, 20212 min read


Which belt are you?
In Brazilian Jiujitsu, you work your way up the belt system: white, blue, purple, brown, and black. The difference in skill levels...

Dillan Taylor
Jan 26, 20212 min read
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